Some stories are whispered. That doesn’t make them any less sacred.

The silence around pregnancy loss can feel isolating, but you are not alone.

Experiencing pregnancy or infant loss can be so isolating, no matter what stage the pregnancy is released or reason why the baby is lost. Family and friends just don’t know what to say, grieving parents feel like they can’t talk about their baby, and the grief itself can feel overwhelming. A Pregnancy and Infant Loss (PAIL) Advocate provides support at any point on the loss journey. You don’t have to go through this alone – I can help. I hold space for you.

I provide physical, emotional, and educational support for those going through pregnancy loss and infant loss, no matter what stage of pregnancy. I provide support for all types of pregnancy and infant loss, whether naturally occurring, induction, cesarean section, D&C, D&E, or abortion/termination.

All services are by donation in a Pay What You Wish. Nobody should feel like they have to face pregnancy loss alone. All funds are put into the Community Support Fund to help continue this work.

Loss & Abortion Doula Support

Specialized physical, emotional, and educational support for those experiencing a known loss, miscarriage, abortion, or termination at any stage of pregnancy. As your loss and abortion doula, I provide grounded, compassionate presence and advocacy before, during, and after your experience.

In-Person and Virtual Support

Calm, informed care through every step:

  • Birth, procedure, or appointment support

  • Comfort measures and emotional grounding

  • Planning and preparation guidance

  • Funeral or memorial planning

  • Follow-up and grief support

  • In-person, phone, text, email, or video chat options

 

Can be combined with additional in person postpartum hours for $20/hour

Comprehensive emotional, practical, and memorial support for families navigating the heartbreak of pregnancy or infant loss. As a pregnancy and infant loss doula and advocate, I provide gentle guidance and compassionate care to help you find stability, connection, and meaning after loss.

Emotional Support: Gentle, compassionate guidance to help you process grief, find stability, and begin healing in your own time and way.

Practical Guidance: Support in managing the many decisions and logistics that can arise during and after loss, including:

    • 2 hours of in-person support
    • Funeral or memorial planning
    • Support when trying to conceive again
    • Pregnancy after loss guidance
    • Education and support for family and friends
    • Grief and coping strategies
    • Phone, text, email, or video chat support

 

Memory & Remembrance Support: Assistance in creating meaningful ways to honor and remember your baby, such as keepsakes, memory boxes, or personalized rituals and ceremonies that celebrate their life and love.

Can be combined with additional in person postpartum hours for $20/hour

How can I support you?

Pregnancy and infant loss is incredibly difficult, and many people don’t know how to offer support. That’s where I come in. I’ve been through this myself, and I offer care that meets you wherever you are. If you have questions about how I can support you—or someone you love—please fill out the form below. I’ll be in touch within 1–2 days. (Be sure to check your spam folder, just in case.)